Thursday, November 8, 2007

Sex is to Hide and Seek!

Sex is to “Hide and seek” not to light up openly!

Sex is a natural feeling and activity that would start springing up at appropriate time in a human life. Its arrival at an early period than necessary would cause a greater disturbance to the other faculties of life.

Sex is a feeling of love!


It seems to be a feeling like happiness or sadness, fear or courage, anger or calmness. These feelings are mainly associated with the state of mind. On the other hand, the feeling of sex that starts with a kind of love for the opposite sex is mainly coupled to the bodily desires.


Sex is a sensual desire!

The love for the opposite remains to be innate and kept dormant for a few years till suitable circumstances. The time of initiation and activity of this embedded sex is to be decided not by bodily desires but by wise thinking.

Food and sex are the very basic things!

Human race is a very advanced, extra ordinarily clever and superior race among those in animal kingdom. All animals have very common basic things in life, one is searching for food and consuming when ever needed. The other thing is having sexual relationships as soon as they are physically matured and also whenever situations are suitable for any twosome to pair.

No planning for food and sex!

In animal kingdom, there is no wiser activity like thinking a plan for the future than satisfying immediate desires like appetite and sensual sex. It would seem that animals live for food and sex. All activities could be regarded as prerequisites and results and follow up of these two bodily desires.

The food requirements grow up and down!

For man kind, the food and sex are two things among so many necessities in life. The food is a basic factor and its need starts no sooner a child got initiated in the womb of the mother. The kind, quality and quantity of food vary as the child grows. It attains a peak when the desires of the grown up gets satisfied by his pallets and taste buds, besides mental faculties.

Then his desires go down as he gets aged. This could go still further as if it is return of childhood. He may prefer again milk and liquid diets till he starts his journey to his heavenly abode.

Factors important than sex in life!

The second factor, the sex is primary thing in human life as for as he wishes to produce his offspring to go behind his presence in this world. But its requirement in quantity and its time of activity are controllable by ever so many factors around him. The feelings and actions of sex diminish to unimportant as some special things should take lead in life.

These special events are quite necessary to compose the man or woman respectable in social life. These are the things that construct the man wise and clever in knowledge, skillful and proficient in his job, popular and mention worthy in his specialty and finally successful in his endeavors gaining a status in his socio economic atmosphere.


Sex becomes secondary and put off to appropriate time!

When all these issues and expectations are important in life, the desire for food and sex, said to be the prime thing become secondary to all. The requirements exist, but they are eventually controllable by rational thinking. They are essential, but their quality, quantity, frequency are decided by the wise faculties of human brain than the animal instinct. Their need and fulfillments are regulated by social standards established mostly by practice and experiences than by rules and regulations.

Uncontrolled food and sex lead to disrespected state!

Marriages and social life processes convincingly explain the need for a controlled sexual activity. The excessive way of eating by unacceptable means will lead to obesity and disease condition. In sex too, this would lead to poor health and ailing conditions.

The society disrespects and laughs at the uncontrollable man who exhibits his bodily conditions openly with undermined immoral ways. It is a pity that he loses every good thing in life, as he compromises all for a set of bad behaviors.


This has arisen because of his weak mental faculty and association with bad constituents. These bad elements are friends with least morality, books guiding the mis fortunate things, films, videos and pictures showing enticing sexual activities. Besides, all advanced countries are very unfortunate in paving the way for awful immoral things. They have enormous ways and means to take the unguided youth to the heavenly places to end their life in dreadful diseased conditions.


Knowing more may instigate sex activities too early!

An open sex education will bring more youth to the arena of knowledge on sex. But, this will instigate most of the innocent youth to under go a period of dilemma. As a normal human being, by this education he will get a chance of mental alluring towards sex. It is likely that he will wish to have a practical experience than to postponing to an appropriate time. It will become an evil thought daunting the innocent till he gets cleared out of the dilemma.

The most likely happening thing for a good boy getting entangled in a bad atmosphere would be spoilage first and regret later.


Follow moral instructions to preserve energies!

To come out of all these drudgeries and get a happy life with a good social status is learning moral things with a divinely feeling. Teaching the importance of morality and practicing yoga and meditation may be helpful in keeping the powerful mental and bodily energies in tact for future. All these illusion of happiness can be had at any time with the command of a wise thinking. A liberal thinking about rational usage of food and sex would lead to a life full of youth and energy.

Measured usage contains the urge!

Quality, quantity, frequency and time of consumption and utilization of both food and sex are the key factors that would keep you healthy and happy to get engaged in all social activities in a balanced way to achieve total success!

Let everything happen at appropriate time!

Learn not and use not sex till it is appropriate! Get engaged in your life’s promotional activities, naturally you will learn a safe social life at appropriate time. Knowing too much and too early may lead to diversions from establishing a successful and peaceful domestic life.